It’s been a busy few days since I docked back in Melbourne. I wanted to go visit Ray as much as I could but I also wanted to delve back into the genealogy of our family.
Our family come from two English on Mum’s side and an Irish and Scottish on Dad’s side. I knew about my Grandfather and Grandmother Best, So went up to the Cemetary where they were buried and got a photo. My Mum, Dad and brother Jim were buried there too so went and photographed their details too. They don’t have a headstone, just two plaques in the lawn Cemetary which is the newer version of burials.
As I was there I went looking for Lissie’s Mum and Dad too. I had attended Rudi’s Funeral and knew where I thought the plaque was but had never found it. This day I was determined and began walking up and down in the area. It took ages, but finally, success and there they were. Just as I found them one of the Cemetary staff came up to me. I was so elated, I said “i’ve Found them.” “Oh” she said. “I saw you looking and noticed from your van you were from Q’land and thought you might have needed some help”. People are so nice aren’t they?
The next day I needed to go to Coburg on the other side of Melbourne. I set the smart navi because all the roads are different now with freeways and tunnels etc. I am SO grateful to this smart navi that directed me onto major roads I had no idea of, but eventually I could see ahead of me a large very old Cemetary. I turned into the gate but there was no building for information.
i had my Great Grandfather’s name and date of death but without help, I had buckley’s of finding him. I drew up behind a truck where a worker was putting tree branches into the back of his truck and asked for the information place. They no longer have one, as all the Melbourne cemeteries have been split up into North and South and administrated from just major places.
This kind man, took my information, made two phone calls, then I followed him in my van to where we could get to the closest place, then we walked to the site. There was no headstone and somehow I didn’t think there would be, just a metal number hammered into the ground, but due to the age only a tiny bit showed. He was going to his truck to get a shovel to expose the number better, but my van was closer and he used mine. When he exposed the number, he then cleared the dirt from around the actual numbers so they were clearly defined and also took a photo of me there. He was just so helpful and kind that yesterday I rang his office and commended him.
Being in the area I then went and visited ny friend and mentor Norma. Norma is now in her 90’s and lives in a Nursing home. She was having her lunch when I arrived but knew me immediately and her face broke into the widest smile. She kept saying. “ I can’t believe it” and holding my hand.
I continued on my Cemetary search and headed to the Old Melbourne Cemetary where my great grandmother was buried with her mother who died two years before her. These were the Irish McDermotts who came out in 1830’s as assisted migrants. Either their Catholic Parish paid their way or the farmer they were to work for did. They then had to work to pay back their fares. My great grandmother was 18 months old when they berthed in Sydney. She married Edward Joseph Norman who came from Great Yarmouth in England. Both Margaret Norman and her mother Bridget McDermott died some years before Edward so he may have moved to Coburg. I will have to investigate.
Of course the traffic was horrendous, but I did manage to drive into the Cemetary and after a great deal of difficulty to find their headstone, though does need cleaning.
I will continue later.

This was my last night as I would be on the boat coming back to Melbourne the next night.
We lit our fire and sat down to read before going into the pub for tea. It was freezing cold and Steven had discovered he had the wrong sleeping bag in his swag, but fortunately I had two heavy rugs and he was most grateful.
We drove back to Weldborough and got the fire going as it was very cold, then off to the pub for tea again. I made myself a hot water bottle and retired to bed, Steve in his swag once again. The sunsets were glorious.

Such a beautiful place to just sit and reflect.
How good was that? We were all chuffed.
This is just to show how high up I got. After half an hour later I started back down and eventually Steven caught up with me. Back on the boat everyone shared their contributions for a delicious lunch. It was as we were eating that this enormous manta ray came right up to the boat. I had never seen one so big. The photo is not a good one, but does show the size. Well actually it doesn’t but believe me it was gigantic!

Steve had the weekend off so in the morning he went surfing and I sat on the beach and read. Mel came home 20 hrs. after leaving Port Hedland, but did she rest? No! They were off paddle boarding and I took my chair down and watched.
Another walk along the beach and I was fascinated with the oyster catcher and the Southern gull which had caught something to eat – may have been a skink.

know if the same man did this one.
Who would have thought we would have made contact again with a freakish meeting in Italy?

Sadly you can hardly see the cliffs which are way in the background. Hopefully I will get a closer up photo before I leave. As you can see the whole beach area is just beautiful.
